Has absolutely nothing to do with wineq , it seems to be the UI i downloaded after expansion came out.... I was using the new SARS dod UI.
Reason i say this , i loaded in both accounts on default UI today just to test and guess what , no low memory warnings, memory didnt even come close to zero , (was still like 300 Meg free).
Well just wanted to let you know , i just happened to get new patch to wineq and UI same day , and so i thought it was WINEQ . but its not

And if i may ask here , even though this isnt the forum for this , does anyone know why that UI would cause all the memory to be sucked up like that ?